Today, I want to share with you the importance of shifting our mindset from “why me” to “try me.” Life throws us curveballs, challenges, and setbacks that often leave us feeling defeated and questioning why we are the ones facing these difficulties. However, by adopting a mindset of resilience and determination, we can transform these moments into opportunities for growth and success.
When we constantly ask ourselves, “why me,” we inadvertently become victims of our circumstances. We allow self-pity and negativity to consume us, hindering our ability to find solutions or take action. This mindset holds us back from achieving our full potential and robs us of the chance to overcome obstacles.
On the other hand, when we shift our perspective to “try me,” we embrace challenges as opportunities to prove ourselves. We acknowledge that life’s hurdles are not meant to break us but to shape us into stronger individuals. By adopting a mindset of determination and perseverance, we become unstoppable forces capable of achieving greatness.
Shifting our mindset from “why me” to “try me” empowers us to:
- Embrace growth: Challenges provide valuable lessons and experiences that contribute to our personal and professional growth. Instead of dwelling on the difficulties we face, we can focus on how we can learn from them and become better versions of ourselves.
- Cultivate resilience: Adopting a “try me” mindset enables us to bounce back from setbacks with resilience. We understand that failure is not the end but merely a stepping stone towards success. Each setback becomes an opportunity to learn, adapt, and forge a new path forward.
- Discover hidden strengths: When faced with challenges, we often discover hidden strengths and abilities within ourselves. By shifting our mindset, we unlock our potential and become aware of our capacity to overcome even the most daunting obstacles.
- Inspire others: Our attitude and mindset have a profound impact on those around us. By adopting a “try me” mindset, we become a source of inspiration and motivation for others who may be going through similar struggles. Our resilience and determination can ignite a spark within them, encouraging them to face their challenges head-on.
Remember, life is not about avoiding difficulties but rather about how we respond to them. By shifting our mindset from “why me” to “try me,” we take control of our circumstances and transform them into opportunities for growth and success. Embrace challenges, cultivate resilience, and discover your hidden strengths. Together, let’s inspire and uplift one another on this journey of personal development.

With determination and a positive mindset,
Aaron Rouselle cancer survivor and 2 time liver transplant recipient